Seeing the world through rose-colored glasses means you have a positive outlook on life, even when circumstances don’t seem to warrant it. It frequently implies that the wearer of said glasses is gullible, even a Pollyanna type—which is contrary to the spirit intended in the book by Eleanor H. Porter, on which the term is based—a naive person who is overly optimistic, oblivious to the seriousness or danger in a situation.
What’s wrong with rose-colored glasses?
If we’re coloring our lives happy, then we should all keep a pair handy!
What’s wrong with being optimistic, with seeing the good in others and being able to visualize a good outcome? If we think about it, we’d realize there’s not much benefit in taking a negative view—also known as worrying. We’d realize that we stand to gain more by looking for the best in any situation or thinking ahead to a better time.
There’s a story about a man who, after breaking his leg, ended up in the hospital. He was miserable—convinced he was the victim of bad luck. But one of his nurses was a wonderful woman. They fell in love and later married. This convinced him that breaking his leg was a case of good luck, since it enabled him to meet his wife.
You can look at almost every situation in at least two ways. It’s best to find a way to view even bad situations in the most positive way you can muster, not because it will change the situation or outcome, but because it will change your attitude and increase your chances of survival, triumph and happiness.
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